update update update...

Yoz, long time haven updated my blog.... kekeke...
finally the merlion syndrome has subsided... though it still come back once a while when i ate the wrong thing or when i was too hungry... ya.. i get hungry easily...

I am now moving into my 16 weeks pregnancy. yep, thats 4 months! but i dun look like i am 4 months lor.. i looked as if i am 5 or 6 months... yayaya... people play joke on me, saying even when i was not pregnant, my tummy was also that big.. thank you ar!

went for gynae check up last sat... hoping that the gynae could tell me the gender of the baby... but as i was made to wait more than half an hour outside, sitting on a comfortable couch, reading peacefully, lil fellow fell asleep in me, hiding at one corner of the womb.. resulted, cant see anything cuz he/she 'giap' tightly and no matter how the gynae shook, it refused to move.... so different from my last visit when he was soooooo active that the gynae had a difficult time measuring him...

ohhh... i cant wait for the time to come when i can feel his kick and movement... i told en that when it grows bigger it could even hi-5 with her!!!! kekeke... she is definitely excited. and she is also very sensible. she helped me with many chores... fold clothings, keep toys... etc

another update that worth mentioning.... yongqi has finally passed his 'without diaper during nap time' training. now he would wake up to pee into the toilet bowl when he needs to... hmm... think soon i will start train him for the night time one... i believe he is ready!

we have finally decided to let yongen undergo the surgery to close her heart murmur... her appointment will be next jan. we have waited for 5 yrs already and the doctor confirm that the murmur will not close by itself. i hope that during the school holiday, someone would cancel his appointment so that we could get an earlier date. i hope to get it done before she goes p1. and of course b4 i give birth cuz after giving birth i will be breastfeeding the baby so the baby will need to stay by my side 24 hours... in order to be able to attend to her in the hospital, i have to get her done asap. she needs to be hospitalised for 3 days for the surgery.

its not easy to come out with such decision. but i think we need to close it somehow. else it would be troublesome for en even when she grows up. she needs to do follow up with kk annually due to the murmur. and in case she needs any surgery, even as minor as dental case, she needs to remember to report her murmur condition so that special care has to be taken to avoid infection. in case infection does take place... it would be as serious as 3 weeks hospitalization case. right now, en still young. so every single procedure, i am going thru with her. and i always remember to report her murmur condition to any doctor she seeing. but i thought, say if one day, i am not around, then would the daddy remember to report the condition? will en herself remember to do so? or let say if any accident happen outside... no one would know such special medical need... and i also worry say if in future she undergoes childbirth... need c section... would the murmur cause complication? well, as i say, i cant be with her forever and every minute. once she hits p1, its another phrase in her life and before i realise, she has become independant... now i believe time really flies... not to mention when she hot p1, se actually has grown so much independant now... so many things, i leave it to herself. and she is managing well. the only thing she still yet to break thru, is to clean herself after she poos!!! hahaha... she simply refuse to try that!!!! hahaha... other than that, i allow her to wash her own cup and cookie bowl, fold clothings, change her own clothings after come back from school and hang her own uniform, shower herself (occasionally i do it for her esp when it comes to hair wash) and ensure that she throws her own laundry into the washing machine... she even requested me to allow her to prepare milk herself.. but since it involves some hygiene matter, i kiv it. hmm... maybe i should think of a way to do that... ya why not?

come to yongqi, as usual, my carefree and happy boy! ladies and aunties killer still... with his language skill now, he is even more loveable! sometimes he can be really sweet, asking me to be careful when he sees that the floor is wet, ask if it hurts when the hair dresser pulled my hair to cut... he also can consider independant actually... many times i left him on the rides when i hop into nearby store to buy somethings... and when he finishes, he would come look for me. once there was an auntie so afraid that he might get lost... she accompanied him to look for me.. hahaha he is simply to cute.

Thank God for all these experiences. I believe that the third child of mine will be another irresistible one!!! extra cute, extra wise, extra independant, extra adorable! Amen!!!
:)