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Sunday, December 27, 2009

宝贝的名字出炉了!

前阵子在Facebook里头表意希望朋友们可以帮忙提议小宝贝的名字。。。实在非常感谢许多愿意和我们一起绞尽脑汁的亲戚好友们。你们实在给了我们许多很好很好的名字。有些是很酷的名字,有些则带有你们打从心里的祝福。

当中很酷的名字有二姐提议的“勇翮 (he2)”其意思是勇敢的翅膀。 还有东威的妹妹提出的“勇睿(rui4)”意思是勇敢又有智慧。说实在, 我真的很喜欢这两个名字。无论意思或文字都很特别,非常有“墨水”!可见二姐和我小姑(东威的妹妹就是我的小姑)的语文程度是“dun play play”的!!!

另外也有我的“媳妇”昌冰 (是的,她整天对我的勇齐虎视眈眈,几乎整个教会都听过她喊勇齐“相公”。所以我不是她的家婆是什么?kekeke...)好意的祝福,提议小宝贝的名字叫“永康”,因她说勇齐的身体好象不是很好(尤其是前两年),一直要看医生。她希望小宝贝的身体会很健康。因此便提议这名字。除了昌冰,我的阿姨,ah may,也有提议此名字。她的原因很好笑。她说《还珠格格》的五阿哥叫“永祺”(yongqi,与勇齐同音),那弟弟就和驸马一样名字,叫“永康”好了!(ehhh... Ah may 啊,驸马不叫永康,他叫尔康啦!!!)

另外,表妹慧敏也提供了“勇翔”,勇敢飞翔之含义。还有从前的上司提议的勇俊、勇乐。。。喜欢音乐的堂妹甚至提议“永乐”(yue4)等等等。。。

有了那么多超棒的名字,再加上之前我自己日想夜思的一些名字,我“呈上”了一份名单给我的生意伙伴“大股东”,也就是孩子的爸(不是吗?我们俩虽都各占50%的股份,我的职责是“酝酿”产品,他则是提供“原料”和接下来的 development investment(发展投资)。所以就运作守则来说,他扮演的角色非凡。因此,我想最关键的决定权应该来自他!

他当时一看,就非常果断地选了“勇杰”意思是勇敢又杰出。他说“杰”字比较容易写,以后小宝贝学写自己的名字时就不会那么痛苦。这一点我也真是同意。我可不想孩子因无法很好或正确地书写自己的名字而感到沮丧,甚至讨厌华文。。。况且,“勇杰”这个名字也蛮符合我对这小宝贝的期望与怀他的异象。

怀咏恩却还不知道自己已怀孕的时候,在一次的敬拜中,我告诉神我和我的孩子会一生敬拜他。因此,怀咏恩的异象是她是一个敬拜者,她要歌咏上帝的恩典。英文名字是Joen!

怀勇齐,但还不知道他的性别的时候,我在一次敬拜中看见一个年轻的壮年跳着战舞。接下来,有姐美为我祷告,说这孩子是上帝的勇士。因此勇齐的名字的意思是勇士所有特征都齐全了。英文名字为Joshua!

怀这一胎,我觉得这孩子会有大卫王的特征。大卫王,尽管自己不是什么“大”人物,但是当有人(哥利亚)亵渎上帝的名字的时候,他却勇敢且有信心地站出来阻止,且不靠兵器也不靠盔甲,单靠主耶和华的同在与力量,用简单的石头和吊索,便把比他高大几倍的敌人给打败了。

因此,勇杰,既勇敢又杰出,正合乎这异象。英文名字,我把他取为Joel!

再一次地感谢大家愿意为小宝贝的名字出一份力。希望大家会喜欢“勇杰”这个名字。在此祝福大家新年快乐!:)

Tuesday, December 22, 2009

Bintan family trip

still remember me and my family went for genting and cameron highland last june... the experience was not very good as we were following tour package and we need to rush according to their itinarary...

This time we went Bintan and we decided not to go thru tour agent. we did booking of resort and ferry ticket ourselves. the whole thing was free and easy...

as we booked our own accomodation, we were able to state our preference... i requested for a ground level, garden facing, quiet and non smoking room. fine enough, our room was so marvellous! it turned out to be our dream room... staying in it alone was relaxing enough!!! the children simply enjoyed blowing bubbles at the balcony.. too bad, if we had brought a ball and a kite, everything would be so perfect!!!!

due to high budget put aside by boss for this trip, our spending power this time was higher... we ate good food in good atmosphered restaurant. thou it was not at the high end restaurant, i was happy enough with my boss's generosity! imagine spending $92 on a buffet dinner, $52 on a lunch and $65 on another alacarte dinner... wow!!!

We were lucky that there was a fireworks during our first night stay... the kids were so excited as the show was very near to our room... i was not as fortunate to be able to catch the show cuz i was busy making use of the bathtub available... kekeke...

I think the best part of the trip was we were very near to the beach.. and there were fish in the water!!!! Boss and maid (my hubby and i la) had great time catching fish by the sea water... while yongen explored along the beach and yongqi busy digging hole in the sand... all of us were dirty at the end of the beach visit.. but we wouldnt care much since our room was so near and it was a resort room!!! (kekeke... sorry la... if it was our own house then we need to worry how to keep the area clean ...

the kids tried something that they had never done before... they played bungy bounce!!! and they really enjoyed so much!!! yongqi kept saying 'bungy is fun'...

for me, there was a moment which i was really touched... there was a live band at the lobby in the evening... the songs that they presented were 90s songs... and they really reminded me of my young days... and for that moment i suddenly miss my peers and friends... thoughts of how i wished i am still single and free, and was with them, lazing at the lobby sofa enjoying the breeze and the band.... then suddenly, i wort of waken from the dream... telling myself i have no regret as i have a wonderful hubby and children.... i almost teared hugging my yongen at that moment...

overall, i really love the trip!!! i really thank my dear boss for initiating this breakaway. Thank you my dear! MUAK!

shoo shoo gestational diebetes...

yoz, its been some times since i last blog.... my pregnancy is in my 26th weeks, which is 6 and half months le :). lil fellow is active. he has started to show his kicks and boxes... i enjoy seeing my tummy jerking side to side and lumps out of tummy... i really enjoy thou maybe little discomfort...

yesterday i went to my gynae for a glucose tolerant test. i was supposed to fast overnight then take blood then drink a very sweet syrup and test blood again 2 hours later... result is not good! my reading showed 11. which it is supposed to be below 7 lor.... thus my gynae is very concerned. she said that very high chance that i need to do insulin injection if the glucose level is this high. i am given 3 weeks to try out diet control to see if my glucose can be controlled.. if no, i need to inject myself with insulin.. yak!!!

how to test blood? i am asked to buy a glucometer, poke myself 6 times a day, twice a week, to check my level ad keep record of what my reading and what i eat... thru this, i realise that i am a 'live to eat' person.. feeling so miserable with this cant eat that cant eat kinda situation... haiz!!! Lord, please help me to get the glucose under control... i dun wan to do the insulin injection... please....

i was in the verge of having gestational diebetes too when i carried yongen and yongqi.. thus they were big babies... in fact due to this problem, my kids are not supposed to take too sweet stuff cuz their risk of having diabetes are higher than normal people... my gynae told me that my this lil fellow (in my tummy) will be a big fellow... his size now is 1kg and equivalent to 27th week pregnancy baby!!! she said he will sure hit 4kg and hopefully not too much beyond.. else i may need c-section!!!! Lord, help me to able to deliver this lil fellow naturally and may the delivery be smooth and good. Please protect him. Let him be a healthy and wise child. Thank you Lord, in Jesus name i pray, Amen!

Thursday, November 12, 2009

梁文寧 李麗娜 李麗婷 - 童謠1987

nice song for all children and parents :)

Tuesday, October 27, 2009

another teapot

hahaha here i am blogging again... hope i still have readers here!!!

yesterday i went to visit my gynae.. as this is my 18th week pregnancy and during my last visit at week 15th the baby did not cooperate by opening its leg to show its gender, i really hope this time he would be more cooperative... i am really anxious to know is it a he or a she.

my original appointment date is supposed to be coming thursday. but since my friend was available to help me babysit my older children when they are napping at home, i must as well change the appointment date.. when i called the clinic, i was told that doc was waiting for call from the labor ward. ie. she was on a standby for a delivery case... and i managed to make my appointment at 3.15pm. (initially i wanted the 3.30pm slot but it was taken up so i took the 3.15pm one instead). my friend reached my place 2.30pm. and at that time if i took a bus to the clinic, i should be able to make it for my appointment. however, i have a feeling i should take a cab down and at the end i did. Thank God i did. As i reached earlier, i went in the room at about 3pm. and when i came out, the labor ward called for the doc. so the doc had to postpone all appointments and rushed to the hospital. i saw few angry patients, esp those who just reached from far away place by cab... well, i can understand their frustration. and i think if i were they, i would feel angry too. but come to think of it, who needed the doc more at that point of time? if i were the patient at the labor ward, i surely wanted my doc to fly over immdiately... hmm...

come back to the scan...
this lil fellow is really mischievious. he was literally in sitting position which according to my gynae, the most difficult position to see the gender... my gynae knew that i would be disappointed if we couldnt get to see the gender again, so she tried very hard, all ways, shook the baby... etc, to made lil fellow shift. finally she said she caught a view of what we wanted to see. but it was partially covered by the baby's foot. so it was not a clear view actually... thus she continue trying.. guess what, the very next moment, the baby used its hand to cover its private part!!!! alemak... the gynae really laughed... 'cute fellow' she said.

we kept trying.... till finally we caught the view of the little teapot. a clear one. so clear that i can even see... hahaha
ya, another boy on the way!!!!

back home, i told dw the baby is a boy. he is very happy. its exactly what he wants.then i broke the news to yongen... she been so hopeful that baby will be a girl so that the girl team at home will win.... i showed her the scan... explained to her each part of the pic. then pointing at the crucial part, i asked her do u know what is this? she shook her head. then i told her, 'its the kukujiao'
she looked at me stunned. and i asked, 'so u know this is didi or meimei?'
softly she answered,'didi' i said yes its didi... after i said that, she turned away with disappointment and refused to look at my tummy... she was really disappointed... she kept mumbling,' i dun wan didi. didi very naughty one' then i told her,'baby is so sad that jiejie dun like him... u know baby likes jiejie so much cuz since conceived jiejie has been praying for him... but now jiejie rejecting him... poor baby...' then she said,'but didi very naughty one. i dun like didi....' so i told her,'you can pray for didi now that he will be a good and obedient boy, will listen to jiejie...' after much psychoing, she finally accepted what i said and prayed for baby again and kissed it... hahaha... now she would on and off come to my tummy and sayang and play with her new didi...

really thank God for another teapot. in fact i think we need another boy la... recently qi kept saying he is a princess then imitate baby bob danced ballet step across the room... i keep correcting him that he is a prince, not princess... then at my mum side, all the cousins are gals, en's gang and playmates. it would be good that qi has a brother with him....

May the Lord bless this lil son of mine. let him be strong, healthy and safe. Thank God!

Friday, October 16, 2009

PDA Video

this is what PDA closure all about. En will be undergoing the surgery Jan next yr. Please pray for smooth surgery...

Wednesday, October 7, 2009

update update update...

Yoz, long time haven updated my blog.... kekeke...
finally the merlion syndrome has subsided... though it still come back once a while when i ate the wrong thing or when i was too hungry... ya.. i get hungry easily...

I am now moving into my 16 weeks pregnancy. yep, thats 4 months! but i dun look like i am 4 months lor.. i looked as if i am 5 or 6 months... yayaya... people play joke on me, saying even when i was not pregnant, my tummy was also that big.. thank you ar!

went for gynae check up last sat... hoping that the gynae could tell me the gender of the baby... but as i was made to wait more than half an hour outside, sitting on a comfortable couch, reading peacefully, lil fellow fell asleep in me, hiding at one corner of the womb.. resulted, cant see anything cuz he/she 'giap' tightly and no matter how the gynae shook, it refused to move.... so different from my last visit when he was soooooo active that the gynae had a difficult time measuring him...

ohhh... i cant wait for the time to come when i can feel his kick and movement... i told en that when it grows bigger it could even hi-5 with her!!!! kekeke... she is definitely excited. and she is also very sensible. she helped me with many chores... fold clothings, keep toys... etc

another update that worth mentioning.... yongqi has finally passed his 'without diaper during nap time' training. now he would wake up to pee into the toilet bowl when he needs to... hmm... think soon i will start train him for the night time one... i believe he is ready!

we have finally decided to let yongen undergo the surgery to close her heart murmur... her appointment will be next jan. we have waited for 5 yrs already and the doctor confirm that the murmur will not close by itself. i hope that during the school holiday, someone would cancel his appointment so that we could get an earlier date. i hope to get it done before she goes p1. and of course b4 i give birth cuz after giving birth i will be breastfeeding the baby so the baby will need to stay by my side 24 hours... in order to be able to attend to her in the hospital, i have to get her done asap. she needs to be hospitalised for 3 days for the surgery.

its not easy to come out with such decision. but i think we need to close it somehow. else it would be troublesome for en even when she grows up. she needs to do follow up with kk annually due to the murmur. and in case she needs any surgery, even as minor as dental case, she needs to remember to report her murmur condition so that special care has to be taken to avoid infection. in case infection does take place... it would be as serious as 3 weeks hospitalization case. right now, en still young. so every single procedure, i am going thru with her. and i always remember to report her murmur condition to any doctor she seeing. but i thought, say if one day, i am not around, then would the daddy remember to report the condition? will en herself remember to do so? or let say if any accident happen outside... no one would know such special medical need... and i also worry say if in future she undergoes childbirth... need c section... would the murmur cause complication? well, as i say, i cant be with her forever and every minute. once she hits p1, its another phrase in her life and before i realise, she has become independant... now i believe time really flies... not to mention when she hot p1, se actually has grown so much independant now... so many things, i leave it to herself. and she is managing well. the only thing she still yet to break thru, is to clean herself after she poos!!! hahaha... she simply refuse to try that!!!! hahaha... other than that, i allow her to wash her own cup and cookie bowl, fold clothings, change her own clothings after come back from school and hang her own uniform, shower herself (occasionally i do it for her esp when it comes to hair wash) and ensure that she throws her own laundry into the washing machine... she even requested me to allow her to prepare milk herself.. but since it involves some hygiene matter, i kiv it. hmm... maybe i should think of a way to do that... ya why not?

come to yongqi, as usual, my carefree and happy boy! ladies and aunties killer still... with his language skill now, he is even more loveable! sometimes he can be really sweet, asking me to be careful when he sees that the floor is wet, ask if it hurts when the hair dresser pulled my hair to cut... he also can consider independant actually... many times i left him on the rides when i hop into nearby store to buy somethings... and when he finishes, he would come look for me. once there was an auntie so afraid that he might get lost... she accompanied him to look for me.. hahaha he is simply to cute.

Thank God for all these experiences. I believe that the third child of mine will be another irresistible one!!! extra cute, extra wise, extra independant, extra adorable! Amen!!!
:)